Get up, Finalising Hopelessness

Get up, Finalising Hopelessness



There are people who when seeing his friend get the glory, or other sciences, he could only astonished, saying to myself, how I could be like him?
Or another case, someone was always pessimists face a job. No other reason, because according to that he was with, it faces the tough job.
In another reality, when a disease is whack, people with only a total surrender to the disease. All day was spent in tears alone, without effort, and effort. As if hope has closed.
Or it could be in the home life of the elderly to feel tired, when to see the fruit of her acting up, stubborn and mischievous. Much advice has been sought so that the children realize the importance of doing well mannered. But what is said, turned out to actually fight against the child. He remained stubborn, naughty and sloppy. Faced with this reality, just as parents were forced to breast stroke, be patient.However, sometimes makes it hopeless to confront this harsh reality.
That's some attitude portrait keterputus-desperation, which sometimes slipped down upon the person. All the pessimism should dipupus. Because, God would provide a way out for help and who want to try.
The exit face of despair can be reached by knowing the nature, causes problems that are melilitnya, and the impact of what the solution is taken. When you are thoroughly known, will undoubtedly help to lift themselves from the disease, or avoid it before it happened to be more severe.
There are several steps that need to be taken to bulldoze a desperate disease.
A. Confirming Faith Against the Making up and QadarThis is an important factor to calm the hearts of the Faithful. That what God wills must happen. Conversely, if God does not want, certainly not going to happen. God has determined the destiny of all creatures from fifty thousand years before the creation of the heavens and the earth. Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala says:
مآأصاب من مصيبة في الأرض ولافي أنفسكم إلا في كتاب من قبل أن نبرأهآ إن ذلك على الله يسير {22} لكيلا تأسوا على مافاتكم ولاتفرحوا بمآ ءاتاكم والله لايحب كل مختال فخور {23}
No one was met with disaster on earth and (nor) in yourselves, but rather has been written in the book (lawh Mahfuz) before We bring it. Verily it is easy for Allah. (We describe such) that you may not grieve for what escapes you, and that you will not get too excited about what He gives to you. And Allah loves not any arrogant people who pride themselves again. [Al-Hadid: 22-23].
The Messenger of Allaah wa sallam said.
كتب الله مقادير الخلا ئق قبل أن يخلق السماوات والأرض بخمسين ألف سنة
God's destiny has been written before the creation of the creatures of heaven and earth for fifty thousand years. [Reported by Muslim, 4797 and at-Tirmidhi, 2157].
Therefore, a Muslim should not be constantly immersed in sorrow for the tragedy, or the failure of the override. Does not necessarily plunge themselves into immoral. A Muslim must be strong, upright, courageous receive ketentuaan God and destiny. This belief in destiny God, help someone to take care difficulties with a steady, calm and clear mind.
2. To be kind Sangka Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'alaThis is one of a Muslim duty to God. Thought would be kind enough to open the door of hope, and despair can get rid of a whisper.Remember, the attitude of prejudice against monotheism, belief in God and science as well as the silver lining. God's people deny that prejudice to him. He said:
...... يظنون بالله غير الحق ظن الجاهلية ......
They thought ...... that is not true of God as the suspicion of ignorance. ....... [Ali Imran: 154]
3. Say a prayerAny heavy problems that are befalling, the servant should never falls into the hopes of God's grace. All problems should be returned to God on him. We are obliged to kneel in prayer, trying to squeeze real tight and be patient. With hope, God will destroy hardship or trials that are being overridden.
In the battle of Badr, the first war in Islam, when he saw the least amount of force the Muslims and their lack of preparation, while the enemy has more power, the Prophet stood up in prayer. Prophet prayed for a long time, until the top of the clothes he sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam fell from his shoulders.
Abu Bakr al Siddiq Allaah 'anhu took pity and comfort him by saying: "God is not going to nyiakanmu whit, O Messenger of Allah," and then came to help and victory of God through His Word:
إذ تستغيثون ربكم فاستجاب لكم أني ممدكم بألف من الملائكة مردفين
(Remember) when you ask help from your Lord, then diperkenankannya for you: "Behold, I bring reinforcements to you with a thousand angels who came in succession". [Al-Anfal: 9].
When a servant prayed to God, begging problem squeezing over, basically he has proved tauhidnya. And the true monotheism will save from the shackles of slander and exams.
If you examine the journey of life the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam, the Companions and Salaf generation, we will know how much they rely to harness the power of prayer. How fascinating, and at once opened the curtain, that we are lacking to his worship of this one. What a lot of problems, which could have been resolved thanks to the prayers to Allah Ta'ala?
Of course, this prayer should also be coupled with efforts to improve themselves. Therefore, it could be, a failure or accident that happened to a servant, because he is the lack of attention to the rules of Allah.
4. To confirm resignation Allah Wa Ta'ala SubahnahuThe ultimate strength is the strength of hearts and the ability to defend oneself. According to Ibn al-Qayyim may Allaah have mercy, indeed one of resignation, including a strong factor in helping to realize these goals (desires) and dismissed the case are not preferred. He is the most powerful motivation. Nature of resignation, is the dependence of the heart to God alone. Businesses that do not have the effect, if the heart is empty of submission to God and tend to otherwise. As not helpful words of "I am sole trust in Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala, but, it turns out he was very dependent, surrender and trust in others. Resignation of the mouth has its own meaning, and tawakkalnya heart has another meaning.
Therefore, Hasan al-Basri said: "Indeed, resignation of a servant to his Lord is, he believes that God is the source of his confidence."
On another occasion, he declared, to ensure sustenance for the servants of God who worshiped him, and victory for the sole trust in Him and ask for help, as well as the adequacy of those who make God the center and the main goal. People who are intelligent and smart, he would think of God's command, implementation and taufik Him, instead of waiting for a guarantee from him. Verily Allah keep their promises anymore honestly. Who is better kept his promise than Allah? [1]
5. That determination has HighA servant will get something in accordance with the level of determination and enthusiasm. People who really want to reach a goal, it will optimize all efforts in realizing it. Everything that could potentially hinder its achievement, will be removed, in order to accelerate and paved the way towards the ladder of success that has been craved. The moments of time is always busy with it.Looking for opportunities and facilities that can help achieve success. Mind and his heart too late with it. Because he knows, "according to the fatigue that success through".
6. Be patient and calmWe must remember, all these problems requires patience and greatness of soul. Are you sure, that complicate matters are only the "subject" with patience. Similarly, the peace, he was instrumental help someone as it passes through the difficulties confronting.Patience is infinite. He needed until death arrives.
We must understand, that the destiny of certain provisions to come.Because of a servant, he can not be separated from the two conditions. That is encouraging and the circumstances that he dislikes.
For example the first condition, he was blessed with health, wealth, position, range of other benefits. In this menggemberikan condition, he was required to be patient. Namely:
- Do not be fooled with it, and do not let the excitement that dragged diarihnya do arrogant, evil, and so forth.- Not too late or forget themselves in achieving it, because it will harm it. People who ghuluw, essentially closer to the negative behavior. If it gets fun, be patient in carrying out his God and not melalaikannya rights.- Refrain from utilizing pleasure was not achieved for the case of forbidden
Some scholars Salaf said: "Testing the disaster can be bypassed by the believers and unbelievers. But the test with pleasure, no one can afford to be patient with him, except the people who honestly keimanannnya".
As for the second condition, the circumstances did not like. It is divided into two kinds. That is related to his will, as do obedience or immoral. And the second type, which is not related to his will, for example, the arrival of the accident.
Therefore, God commanded to seek assistance through patience.Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala says:
واستعينوا بالصبر والصلاة وإنها لكبيرة إلا على الخاشعين
Make your patience and prayers as penolongmu. And so it was really hard, except for those who humility '. [Al-Baqarah: 45].
Mention of the patient in Al Qur `an is not less than seventy times, and entirely in the form of praise. Among other things, linking success with patience (QS Ali Imran verse 200), linking the religious leadership with patience and confidence [Sajdah verse 23].
7. Cultivating Optimism And Positive Thinking NatureProphet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam loved tafa-ul attitude (optimistic) and hate tasya-um (pessimistic). In Sahih al Bukhari, Anas Allaah 'anhu, the Prophet sallallaahu' alaihi wa sallam said:
لا عدوى ولا طيرة ويعجبني الفأل الكلمة الحسنة
No infectious diseases alone, and no misfortune. Optimism (ie) a good word to amaze me. [2]
Al Hulaimi rahimahullah said: "The Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam love with optimism, because pessimism is a bad mirror conjecture to God l for no apparent reason. Optimism was ordered and is a good form of conjecture. A believer is commanded to prejudice both to God in every condition ". [3]
Indeed, the destruction of the spirit of a loss that can not be measured by the material. Positive thinking and the spirit of competition should always be lit in the hearts of every Muslim, not to fade.
Likewise, we should see an abundance of blessings that Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala is never broken. Especially delicious and the Islamic faith. If Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala pleasure another delay, if we're honest, the pleasure we receive from Him who is still so much more. If there is one time that press, then behold, how long have we been in a state fit, freely without any significant problems?Think about!
8. Biography examines Salaful UmmahWhat is meant by Salaful Ummah, namely the companions of the Prophet and those who follow them well. The first generation, the defenders of Islam and the bearer of the message to the next generation. They are the most powerful man of his faith, his heart is the cleanest, most high-level tawakkalnya to Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala.
If you dive into their life stories are full of light, we would conclude, that their life's journey is not always smooth, full test of endurance and sacrifice with a high time lost by the enemy in defense of truth.Examine their life fairy, will be able to add to the faith, enlighten the heart. Will also lead to understanding, if life was not free of thistles and thorns. Street life is not always adorned with the fragrant scent of roses, but there are obstacles and facing exams, or may lead to failure.
In general, God confirms the benefits of the stories of previous prophets and apostles who could also take courage and give a glimmer of hope. Meditate on the word of Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala:
وكلا نقص عليك من أنبآء الرسل مانثبت به فؤادك وجآءك في هذه الحق وموعظة وذكرى للمؤمنين
And all the stories of the messengers We tell you, is that the stories be confirmed with us your heart, and in this letter has come to the truth as well as instruction and warning to those who believe. [Hud: 120].
This reflection will spur a new spirit in living life to steep. Because it turns out he is not alone in experiencing the bitterness, even the best people that ever walked on this earth, all have felt the bitterness.
9. Equip Yourself With Religious StudiesOf the learned it is more powerful than the devil perceived by the severity of religious scholars who are not knowledgeable. The cunning of Satan is weak in the presence of the learned. Muadh Allaah ibn Jabal 'anhu mengatakana, "It (science) is a friend in a state of happiness and distress, as well as weapons in the face of the enemy". [4]
Similarly, a few steps, so that we can wipe out desperately. Be strong determination, that is by always having the nature of optimism not to lose hope, reflect on the people who successfully go through trials. Keep the heart of the nature of the dwarf, because it will only add to the weakness.
Maraji `:- Kaifa Tuwajihu fil al-Ya `sa Biological al 'amaliyyah wa al' Ilmiyyah wa al 'Ibadiyyah Da'awiyyah wa ad, ad Diwan Abdul Karim, an Darul Huda al Fadhilah Nabawi and Daru, Riyadh, Cet. II, Th. 1425.- Asbabu Ziyadati Nuqshanihi wa al-Iman, Prof. Dr. Abdur Razaq al-Badr, Ghiras Kuwait, Cet. III, Th. 1424 H / 2003 AD- Al Bahru ar Raiq wa fi ar az Raqaiq Zuhdi, the work of Dr. Ahmad Farid, Darul Iman, Egypt, without the year.
[Copied from the magazine edition of As-Sunnah Foundation Published 01/Tahun X/1427H/2006M Lajnah Istiqomah Surakarta, Jl. Solo - Purwodadi Km. 8 Selokaton Gondangrejo Solo 57 183 Tel. 08121533647, 08157579296]_______Footnote[1]. Al FAWAID, 149.[2]. HR al-Bukhari (10/181) and Muslim (2224).[3]. Fathu al Bari (10/226).[4]. Narrated Ibn 'Abd al-Barr in al-Jami' (1/65).
Taking Blessed Amanah


ByUmm Al-Ihsan Atsariyah

No matter how small a job if done with care complaints forced accompaniment, will undoubtedly feel like a heavy burden of the mountain. Conversely, any heavy a job if done with full sincerity, joy and hope, will undoubtedly was light and fun. It's true! The responsibility of a mother is not mild. Assuming the duties and obligations which are not less Anyone can not deny, a housewife, barely had time to rest. Her work as always to the eye never-ending.If a father can sleep soundly at night, another case with a mother.Cry baby sometimes disturb sleep at night.
The duty of a woman is so universal. As a companion empress's husband, a mother, nurse and teacher for their children, even as a servant who must always be ready to use its power. Quite often the mothers feel tired, fatigued and take it as a crush that is so excruciating. This is the gap that used to launch vicious action. Like a tit for tat, the women who were weak in the faith in droves from their homes. They are trying to find a solution to the solution of emancipation and chanted slogans demanding equal rights with men. They closed the eyes of the dangers which arise from it. As a result of the mandate and responsibility wasted a mother. Wild child, the husband no longer have peace. Finally, household harmony was threatened.
We as women mukminah true faith. He will not adopt a solution-solving solutions that are just inviting the wrath of God Almighty. The only way out will trigger the emergence of new problems is more worse. So how? That's the question we must answer. One way is to examine more deeply the wisdom behind that responsibility.
NOT our efforts futileAllaah is the One who created man. Of course, he knows precisely what most matters to which the mashlahat or harm. He is also the most mengethui tasks and mandate what is most appropriate and aligned to each of His creatures. So it is with women. Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala knows best what the duties and responsibilities of the most suitable for us. Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala says:
وقرن في بيوتكن
And be ye remain in your house. "[Al Ahzab: 33]
Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala ordered the women to his home melazimi. Even the ruling makruh for a woman out of her house, without a purpose, based on the paragraph above and also the words of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam.:المرأة عورة فإذا خرجت استشرفها الشيطان
The woman's private parts, if it comes out it will be stalked by demons. [By al-Tirmidhi]
Most of us then ask: Why do women have always lived in the house? Are not women also have the potential? Even some women who have the intelligence and skill level better than men. Should not we be able to compete with men? That is doubtful, doubtful that often disseminated by the devil and his armies. Now let's think!
Inevitably we have to admit that women are weak creatures.Physically weak, weak in mind and religion. That is why Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala keep them with the best care. Protect women in hijab is the best of their home. In addition, the reality proves that the tasks in the home may not be implemented perfectly except by a woman. That is why Allah Almighty be prudent to make the home as a mandate for them. In a hadith the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said:
والمرأة راعية على بيت بعلها وولده وهي مسئولة عنهم
A woman is a leader in the affairs of the household and children and will be held accountable for what they lead. [H.R.Muslim]
A mandate that has been properly maintained and implemented well.
When explaining some properties of those who believe, Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala says that among them is keeping the nature of the trust was imposed upon their shoulders. Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala says.
والذين لأمنتهم وعهدهم راعون
And those who maintain the trust-trust (which endured) and its promise. [Al Mukminun: 8]
Further promising Allaah replies to them while says:
ءولئك هم الوارثون {10} الذين يرثون الفردوس هم فيها خالدون
They are the ones who will inherit, which would inherit the jannah paradise. They will abide therein. [Al Mukminuun: 10-11]
Right! God has promised heaven. Then, is there a better return than that? Is not heaven is the highest ideals of each individual Muslim?So, it's time to pump up the spirit that began to relax. We rebuild hope began to fade. We welcome the tasks of tomorrow with hope.With full confidence that our efforts are not wasted. Every drop of sweat that we have a value in the sight of Allah Almighty.
Reduced WORSHIP AFTER MARRIAGE?Such complaints we often hear from them, which used to diligently enforce qiyamullail middle of the night waking (night prayers), fasts diligently working on the Sunnah, studious, memorizing the Qur'an, attending Islamic study groups, and others. After treading the domestic life of a sudden everything became changed by the presence of a husband, followed by the birth of first child, second, third and so on. Now, prayer is often solved kekhusu'an the sound of crying babies. Prevent fatigue sometimes wake up in the middle of the night. Instead of doing shaum sunna, must shaum he was sometimes unable to exert. As I was reading all of a sudden my husband asked to be served, and much more. Now he felt the time to be very narrow to having in mind that households have reduced worship to God. What is true is that? Is it true that hinder a woman's family to get closer to his Lord?
Here we need to correct perceptions. Perhaps the assumption is true, if the question is the ritual acts of worship such as prayer, shaum, and the semisalnya. Because the duties and responsibilities clearly increases when a woman she has become a housewife. But a Muslim who understands the true meaning of worship, certainly will not assume this kind.
The scholars say, covering everything worship favored and blessed of God in the form of words and deeds are born and mentally. All our daily activities can be worth worship. In a hadith the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said.
وفي بضع أحدكم صدقة
And went to the wife is Sadaqah. [Reported by Muslim]
In another hadith, he sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said.
إنك لن تنفق نفقة تبتغي بها وجه الله إلا أجرت عليها حتى ما تجعل في فم امرأتك
Indeed, it is not expecting you spend living with the face of God unless you are rewarded trophies to something that you suapkan into the mouth of your wife. [Reported by al-Bukhari]
In the book Fathul Bari, Ibn Hajar Al Hafizd quoting the words of An-Nawawi, "Faidah who want to be picked in this hadith, the Prophet is sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam," expect, the look, the face of God ".
Imam An-Nawawi draw a faidah: An activity when corresponding with the truth, it does not reduce the value of the reward (if the intention to pray). Therefore, the feeding hand to mouth wife usually done as a joke to him. Of course it is mixed with lust.
However, if the goal expecting the reward of God, surely he would get one with the gift of God.
Ibn Hajar continues: In another hadith mentioned more clearly more than just feeding the hand to mouth wife. That is the hadeeth narrated by Imam Muslim from Abu Dharr Allaah 'anhu, mentioned: And his wife also visited countless alms.
The Companions asked: O Messenger of Allah, whether someone who wreak syahwatnya well rewarded? Prophet said: What do you think if he took it out on the forbidden lines?
Imam An-Nawawi continues: If it says the case may be, the matters required by lust, certainly more feasible if the reward is the reward given for cases that are not desired by lust!?
He continued. Parable with hand to mouth wife feeding the aim is to further reinforce this rule. Therefore, when feeding the hand to mouth wife bite alone is rewarding, more worthy of reward given to anyone that is feeding the people who need food, or doing deeds of obedience to the degree of difficulty is greater than the bite of rice given to the wife, which of course have a lower value.
More than it can be said, if the reward given to him because he has to feed his wife, which of course he also benefited from it. For foods that will make her body look more beautiful. And usually make a living that he gave his wife a lot more driven by the lust factor.Certainly different from the charity to others who would sacrifice a lot more demanding, wallahu a'alam. "
If now our established ritual worship is reduced, but we have the opportunity to practice their religion in other forms during which he did not get the girl. Dutiful and submissive to their husbands, educate and raise children, manage the household affairs, and so forth. In addition, Islam is a religion that is easy and flexible. On the sidelines of the daily grind, many of worship that we can do. By constantly dhikr, reinforcing a sense of gratitude, doing good and avoiding evil beramar, reproduce beads, tahmid, Takbir, tahlil, and seek forgiveness.
WORSHIP AS A WHOLE MAKE AKTIVITASMUWhen a large charitable intentions can be destroyed by a stray, it is the opposite of a charity that seems trivial can be a valuable service because the intention is right. At first glance, the routine day-to-day a wife does seem trivial. Such as providing food, clothing care, tidying the house, serving her husband and others. It is not all that we want to be a valuable service. Of course! Therefore, every woman should set your heart and keep the sincerity of intention merely to achieve the pleasure of Allah. As Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'a order to win the pleasure of every wife's husband.
Work on each job appropriately and professionally to get the pleasure of the husband. Who is the woman who does not crave the love her husband in the world and the Hereafter he gets heaven '?
Similarly, the duties as a mother. Care for and educate our children, to accompany and guide them. We should do all that with all the capabilities of existing shed. Because they are saving for us, at the time of reward throughout the practice has been lost. When the reward of prayer and fasting we can no longer be achieved. But the prayer of the righteous children, and useful knowledge that we teach them will continue to drain the reward. Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said.
إذا مات الإنسان انقطع عنه عمله إلا من ثلاثة إلا من صدقة جارية أو علم ينتفع به أو ولد صالح يدعو له
If a child of Adam dies then the whole charity terputuslah except in three cases: Alms jariyah, useful knowledge or a righteous child who always pray for him. [Reported by Muslim]
DO NOT RELUCTANT prayAs a weak human being we realize, that we will not be able to carry this mandate without the strength and help from Him. This mandate is a very heavy burden unless he relieve it. Will be difficult, unless he makes it easier.
Not a lot of shame when we ask and pray to Him. So, what's wrong if everyone wanted to start activities in the morning, we ask Him to be facilitated in completing all tasks.
Finally, may God Almighty made all this effort as a preparation for us later in the day when the child and the family no longer mempu bring benefits, not the position and possessions.Bish a'lamu Wallahu shawab
[Copied from the magazine edition of As-Sunnah Foundation Published 03/Tahun VII/1424H/2003M Lajnah Istiqomah Surakarta, Jl. Solo - Purwodadi Km. 8 Selokaton Gondangrejo Solo 57 183 Tel. 08121533647, 08157579296]

Also Muslim women Syar'i Compulsory Education Sciences


ByProf. Dr. As-Salih Sadlan

Women are part of the elements of society. So automatically, they also have a stake and duties in managing and improving society.There is no doubt, to carry out responsibilities in fostering self and society, the absolute need of science. Consequently, women must also have the knowledge to carry out these responsibilities.Therefore, it is solely responsible in the implementation of the prayer service, fast service, payment of zakat, pilgrimage, business aqidahnya purification, enjoining activity and the spirit of evil in every good race. In summary, the entire content of the message of Islam is rooted in Al-Qur `an and the Hadith about the duty of a Muslim, meaning that women also have an obligation to study and teach, both in theory and in real amaliah.
Everybody has to understand that Islam contains elements of worship, the leadership committee (arrangement), siyasa (community development) and social, economic and all life aspects.To examine and explore all of it, so it can not be obtained without effort. However, should the effort of learning and learn. Therefore, studying the teachings of Islam, a religion that has a broad range of science, integral, more diverse deep-into an obligation for every Muslim and Muslimah. So it is not surprising that the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said:
طلب العلم فريضة على كل مسلم
"Demanding science compulsory for every Muslim".
But in reality, there are comments by simply relying on mere textual hadith about women studying law is nâfilah (voluntary) only and not mandatory. When in fact the word "Muslim" in the above hadith means people who have been faithful to the message of Islam among both men and women. So penakwilan Such an interpretation is not correct. Therefore, Islam put special attention on education and science syar'i that benefit them.
For those who pay attention to the message of Islam that brought the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam, surely he could find out that Islam is the entire content of the commands and prohibitions, are not restricted to circles of Adam only. However, the Eve is also a part of the minutes of the commands and prohibitions. All the texts in the Scripture and as-Sunnah an obligation to explain the similarities between men with women in all respects, except some things are already to be the specificity of each. In fact there is a clear argument to explain the burden of sharia that are specifically geared to women only, as stated in Al-Qur'ân:
"And remember what is recited in your houses of the revelations of Allah and wisdom (the Sunnah of your Prophet)" [al-Ahzâb/33: 34].
Similarly, says Ibn 'Abbas in the interpretation of the verse:
وقلن قولأ معر فا
"(And say a good word - al-Ahzâb/33 verse 32)", that is, commanded them to participate in doing good and avoiding evil beramar.
Thus, among the most important role for women who work in the field of propaganda, which teaches science syar'i, provide direction and guidance, and do tarbiyah and coaching. Even more so in dealing with domestic affairs and the affairs of her husband, she was the same as with a woman who is engaged in proselytizing activities, indirectly, have an important role through speech, written or spoken recorded. With that, he had to exert power and as a contribution to religious thought.
Keep in mind, since the beginning of Islam, is there a command to educate women about syar'i sciences. Although, in some circumstances there are opposing this issue. But the bottom line, the refusal to issue actually studied poetry contains elements of amoral, philosophy of science, or study the matters which resulted in ikhtilâth (mixing) between men and women. However, if the study is a clear benefit syar'i science, then there is no ban on it. There are even suggestions for in depth, because science can fix syar'i soul, moral, and feelings through a saheeh aqeedah, guidelines noble religion and knowledge-knowledge that will illuminate the minds and strengthen its stance in the face of worldly affairs.
THERE IS NO DIFFERENCE BETWEEN MEN AND LEARNING FOR WOMENThus, there is no difference between men seeking women in science issues. Everyone, Muslims and Muslim women who are reluctant to learn the religious laws, how to relate to his Lord, are reluctant to learn how life coaching, social norms, the core moral and manners of life, then it has fallen into the sin of underestimating these sciences. Which means he has thrust himself to the life of abject because of a delay in reaching the world and the hereafter.Yet it is all useful knowledge, and will free a person from the ignorance and insensitivity to the truth, and spare him from merely mundane orientsi alone.
THEY HAVE DEVELOPEDIn the context of equality of women and men in gaining this knowledge, it's nothing more to prove than the existence of a Muslim woman in the shade of Islam. They have achieved a high degree in science.
Look at the sahabiyyah (female companions), they are spirit worshipers pray with the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam in the mosque, sepaya can obtain the pursuit of the Prophet sallallaahu' alaihi wa sallam. Though all agreed without dissent, that a woman pray at home, it's more than praying in the mosque Afdhal. Then, because a lot of them, finally the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam specialize a mosque door for them to arrive today in Nabawi mosque, which was named "baboon-Nisa'", meaning the door for the ladies.
Al-Baladzuri mentioned in the book Fûhul Buldan: "The number of former Muslim woman who learned to read and write is half the number of men who could read and write." Al-Baladzuri also told that Umm Kulthum bint 'Uqbah proficient in writing.
It was narrated that al-Shifa 'al-Adawiyah of Bani (Tribe)' Adi, a large family of 'Umar asked the Prophet to teach his wife, he sallallaahu' alaihi wa sallam, the Umm-Hafsah bint Mukminiin 'Umar wrote a beautiful way.
Umm-Mukminiin 'Aisha bint Abi Bakr and Umm al-Mumineen Umm Salamah also have the ability to read, although not to the degree proficient in writing. Al-Waqidi mention that Karimah bint al-Miqdad can read and write.
'Aisha bint Sa'ad said: "My father has taught me writing".
Similarly, in terms of teaching, sahabiyyah women are also able to compete with men. Misalanya, as' Aisha Allaah 'anha has narrated more than two thousand hadiths, as well as her sister is named Asma' has also been reported around 50 hadith. And much more among Muslim women than they are a lot sahabiyyah narrated many Hadiths of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam.
Umm Darda endowed with science once said: "Indeed, I have felt and run various kinds of worship, but most can penetrate and heal my soul, and dhikr is that when sitting in front of the clergy".
Imam Nawawi himself admits kefaqihan Umm Darda 'is a compliment: "All have agreed on kefaqihan and greatness Umm Darda' in terms of thinking and understanding. He is Allaah 'anhuma Mu'awiyah lived long."
Thus, Islam does not forbid women to learn the religion. Why not for women to find a way forward for him. Even the scholars of fiqh ahlu ilmi and former and present times agree, that studying is a staple syar'i is fard 'ayn upon them. There was no difference between men with the women in this regard. Men and women equal footing in bersyariat obligations, and so did the get a reply in the next, except in some specific rules of the Shari'a, Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala liberate the women of the task. Good, because the rules contain incriminating elements in the woman running it, or because it is incompatible with the nature of women, or because of conflict with the primary task of creation, or social damage such as ikhtilâth (a mixture of male and female) and other so on. As for the rules of other religions, women have equality with men in carrying out the obligations and rules of the Shari'a.
There is a history, that Asma 'bint Yazid ibn Sakan Allaah' anha never came to the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam as he said: "I was a messenger from the people behind me from a number of Muslim women. Everything said and argued such words andopinion now is, 'Verily, Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala has sent you to the men and women'. We all have faith and and berittiba `(follow) you. But we-women-have limited motion, a party handling domestic affairs alone. While men can get so much by virtue of the congregation pray, come to accompany the body and can go jihad. When they go for jihad, then we who guard the treasures and care for their children . So, if we can also reap the same reward to them, O Messenger of Allah? "
Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam turned to his friend, and cried: "Have you ever heard a woman's question about his religion is better than pertanyan this woman?"
The Companions of Allaah 'anhum replied: "Never, O Prophet of Allah."
Then the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam replied: "Go thou, O Asma', and tell the woman behind the good treatment of any one of you to her husband, her passion in the search for pleasure (husband) and continue to follow the wishes of her husband, then the reward is all the same as what you mentioned earlier (about the virtues of great men who rewarding) ".
Then went home, Asma `tahlil and say Takbir with joy to hear the answer of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam.
DO NOT fall for PROPAGANDA BY WESTBut ironically the last centuries, women deterred from seeking knowledge. So the impact of religious ignorance and backwardness of the Muslims setback. Mothers who do not have the knowledge will give birth to children who are stupid and weak sense.A poet sang:
وإذ النساء نشأت في أمية رضع الرجال جهالة وخمولا
When women grow up in ignorance,then the men swallow ignorance and weakness.
Therefore, including the commendable progress, ie by opening the doors to education for girls and increasing the wives and mothers who equip themselves with knowledge syar'i in the community. So it does not cause doubts in the matter of religious law in one.
The knowledge that must be understood by every Muslim and Muslim, the religious sciences are the most important (dharuuri).Not contain elements of science lies propagated by people who are oriented to the West and the proponents of absolute freedom, removal of shame and immoral act on behalf of the intellectual brain.They named the dance, learn songs, music, drama, film and theater as a science. So did all that could be damage to the door of a woman, whether sourced from the Western or Eastern culture as a science to be learned.
Those are all false propaganda and negative actions that undermine the fairness aspect, the true values ​​and authentic science.
Is there a correlation between education and women with tabarruj (preen), show off the beauty and walk in the streets without direction and purpose like a naked woman? Are genitals exposed and cramped clothing, more transparent curves show clearly a means to facilitate the science easy to understand? Is it all ties with the acquisition of knowledge?
Indeed, including the most fundamental mistake, namely to adopt the culture of Western and Eastern world of good-or bad-if there is no selection and sorting. In fact, culture is inappropriate for them is not necessarily appropriate for us. Because, contrary to the teachings of our religion their habits. And our lifestyle is incompatible with their habits.
The freedom to follow behind the propaganda and participating in the back of the falsehood-falsehood, it will only drag us to the disaster after disaster, humiliation, and loss of identity as well as destruction.
May Allah alleviate any Muslim from mud disobedience. Guide them on the straight and get back on the aqeedah shahiihah, guidance and his direction, until they all can mengeyam happiness in the world and the hereafter.
Walhamdulillahi Rabbil 'alamin.
[Translated freely by Ustad Abu Ziyaad Prof Agus Santoso of the paper. Dr. Sadlân as-Salih, al-Ashâlah Magazine, Issue 29, Year V, 15 Sha'ban 1421 H]
[Copied from As-Sunnah magazine XI/1429H/2008M 11/Tahun Edition. Foundation published Lajnah Istiqomah Surakarta, Jl. Solo - Solo Gondangrejo Purwodadi Km.8 Selokaton 57 183 Tel. 0271-761016]
Protecting the sanctity of Muslim Women, Landscape Contradiction Between Men And Women



ByProf. Dr. Abdur Razaq bin Abdul Muhsin Al-'Abbad Al Badr


Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said:
فاتقوا الله في النساء فإنكم أخذتموهن بأمان الله واستحللتم فروجهن بكلمة الله ولكم عليهن أن لا يوطئن فرشكم أحدا تكرهونه فإن فعلن ذلك فاضربوهن ضربا غير مبرح ولهن عليكم رزقهن وكسوتهن بالمعروف. أخرجه مسلم: 1218
"Fear God you guys (the handling) wives. Surely you take them with a sense of security from God, to justify their genitals with the sentence of God. Right you are over them, (is) they should not be put to bed you someone who you hate. If they do, then beat them with a punch that did not hurt. For them (the obligation) upon you to give sustenance and clothing for them appropriately ". [Reported by Muslim, 1218]
Hanif religion of Islam, with a straight directives and the instructions are full of wisdom, nurturing women, protect the glory and dignity.Also ensure the realization of the glory and true happiness.
Islam has opened the way for women to reach the joy of life, away from the atmosphere of doubt and slander, as well as (much) from the ugliness and destruction. The teachings of Islam is not only a safety valve for the women themselves, but it is comprehensive to the public, so no tangled ugliness and slander. Islam and serves to prevent the disaster and the tempest that would happen.
If the signs of Islam related to women have vanished from society, then there will be damage, deterioration and danger came and went. A fact history has witnessed. Whoever is looking at history through the ages, will conclude that the most influential factor for the destruction of a civilization, the destruction of community, moral degeneration, proliferation of immoral acts and noble values ​​collapse, and widespread crime, the release of women from religious teachings are straight and directing a full-wise direction, guidance is a blessing.
Obligations of a Muslim woman, is to accept all teachings of Islam with a roomy chest, liver clear, and the application of good practice, so that he can live happily, won the good pleasure of his Lord and earthly happiness and ukharawi.
The obligation of the person in charge of women so that they are serious in upholding and fostering them with adab adab-Islam, and maintain their personal rights and honor and be kind to them as a form of obedience to God and the quest reward and fear of Allah forms of realization. Allah is the place to ask help, otherwise there is no lord. Wala wala haula quwwata billah illa.
[Khuthab Mawa'idh min Hajjati wa al Wada ', pages 33-34, Cet. I.Th. 1426 - 2005].

Landscape CONTRADICTION BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN
BySheikh Abdul Mohsen Bin Hamd Al-'Abbad Al-Badr

In recent years, there has been confusion between the male and female scales. Men like women, and vice versa, women like men.Mentioned in Sahih al-Bukhari, from Ibn 'Abbas Allaah' anhuma, he said:
لعن رسول الله n المتشبهين من الرجال بالنساء والمتشبهات من النساء بالرجال
"The Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam cursed the men who like women and women who resemble men".
As of today, there have been events that never happened in the days of Ignorance though. Namely, the emergence of symptoms tabarruj (showing off the beauty) of women who are very apprehensive. Even in many Islamic countries, women in these markets and the public street to show the head, neck, hands, arms, legs, and even their thighs. Instead, the men stuck his clothes to cover your ankles. Though the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam has said:
ما أسفل من الكعبين من الإزار ففي النار
"What under the ankle of the garment (where) in hell". [Bukhari, 5787].
In another Hadith, Abu Dharr Allaah 'anhu narrated, the Prophet sallallaahu' alaihi wa sallam said:
ثلاثة لا يكلمهم الله يوم القيامة ولا ينظر إليهم ولا يزكيهم ولهم عذاب أليم قال فقرأها رسول الله ثلاث مرارا قال أبو ذر خابوا وخسروا من هم يا رسول الله قال المسبل والمنان والمنفق سلعته بالحلف الكاذب
"There are three groups that God is not talking to them on the Day of Resurrection, He did not see them nor purify them and for them a painful Allaah". Abu Dharr said: "The Messenger n say it three times," then Abu Dharr said, "Really, they have experienced failure and loss! Who are they, O Messenger of Allah?" He replied: "A (male) who stuck his ankle beyond his clothes, people who bring up the gift, and people who wanted to popularize the goods with false oaths." [Reported by Muslim, 106].
The men stuck his clothes are prohibited under the ankles, however, turns out they stuck out her clothes over her ankle. While on the other hand, the women, they were ordered to close the genitals as a whole (hijab): but, it turns out they actually show off genitalia and physical beauty.
In this case, the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam has said:
"Three groups are not going to heaven:" A person who is disobedient to his parents, dayyuts (a man who does not upset the existing kemungkaran the family), and women who resemble men. "[Reported by al-Hakim (1/72 ), as well menshahîhkannya, and agreed by adh-Dzahabi].
Musta'an Allaah.
[Adapted from the book Rasaail, Shaykh 'Abdul-Muhsin al-' Abbad, p. 425, with free translation].
The zeal of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam against his wives

ByDr. Muhammad ibn Musa Nasr Alu

He sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam very jealous of his wives. His saying:
إنمآ جعل الآستذان من أجل البصر
"Actually holding idzin request that caused vision". [1]
He sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam sent visitor (someone visiting, Red), if it has been knocking on the door so as not to stand in front of the door [2]. He sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam never seen someone who was at the door. He also said: "If I saw you, I'll stab your eyes with this". Namely, he sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam has mudrah, such as a comb to scratch his head. He is also the word: "If there is someone peering others from the hole, then the man stabbed her, then why not for him".
However, the jealousy he sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam is not abundant as to the degree of prejudice, even he sallallaahu' alaihi wa sallam forbade it.
Jealousy is a nature that God created for man. However, the strange today, we do not get the jealousy on the husband's self, except the people who blessed God.
Jealousy is the nature that God made all His creatures, to the extent that any animal (have jealousy), except for pigs. These pigs, the only animal that is not jealous of her partner. It is not strange, if those who disbelieve eating pork does not have a sense of jealousy of their wives, because their nature is similar to a pig's character, because they eat lots of pork. Even if none of the pig except the trait, then it is simply forbidden to eat it. And swine are unclean, like to eat unclean.
[Source: An-Nabi fi Baitihi, Dr. Muhammad ibn Musa Nasr Alu]
[Copied from As-Sunnah magazine X/1427H/2006M 02/Tahun Edition. X/1429H/2008M 04/Tahun edition. X/1428H/2007M 11/Tahun edition. MDiterbitkan Foundation Lajnah Istiqomah Surakarta, Jl. Solo - Solo Gondangrejo Purwodadi Km.8 Selokaton 57 183 Tel. 0271-761016]
Why Women Should hijab?



This question is very important but the answer is far more important.One question that requires a long answer. Headscarf or hijab is one thing that has been ordered by the Creator of the Shari'a. As the Shari'a which has consequences far into the future, regarding happiness and kemashlahatan live in the world and the hereafter.So, the question of the hijab is not just a question of custom or fashion hijab fashion is a universal fashion to be worn by a woman who has pledged his faith. No matter whether he is a Muslim Arab, Indonesia, Europe or China. Because the command to wear the hijab is common to all Muslim women in every corner of the globe.
Here we review the part of the answer above:
First: As a form of obedience to Allah and His Messenger.Obedience is a source of great happiness and success in the world and the hereafter. A person will not feel the sweetness of faith when he was reluctant to realize, apply, and execute all the commands of Allah and His Messenger.
Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala says.
ومن يطع الله ورسوله فقد فاز فوزا عظيما
"And whoso obey Allah and His Messenger, then surely he has got a great victory". [Al Ahzab: 71]
Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said.
ذاق طعم الإيمان من رضي بالله ربا وبالإسلام دينا وبمحمد رسولا.
"It will taste the sweetness of faith, someone who has sebagaiRabb Allah willing, Islam as a religion, and Muhammad as God's messengers." [Reported by Muslim].
Second: Show off the beauty of the nakedness and the body is a form of immorality which incurred the wrath of Allah and His Messenger.
Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala says.
ومن يعص الله ورسوله فقد ضل ضلالا مبينا
"And whoever disobeys Allah and His Apostle, then indeed it was he had been perverted, perverted the real". [Al Ahzab: 36].
The Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said.
كل أمتي معافى إلا المجاهرن.
"Each of my people (the guilty) will be forgiven, except those who openly (commit adultery)." [Agreed alaih].
While the women who show off the beauty of the nakedness and the body as meaning he had dared to show blatant disobedience.
Thirdly: Surely Allah commands hijab to reduce a wide range of fitnah (damage)
If a slander various dim and disappear, then the people who inhabited by women hijab would be more secure and safe from slander. Conversely, people who inhabited by a woman who likes bertabarruj (dress sexy), genitals and show off the beauty of the body, it is vulnerable to various threats and sexual harassment and slander voluptuous upheaval that brought havoc and destruction is very large. Clear that naked bodies will provoke attention and venomous views. That's the first stages of demolition and destruction of morals and civilization of a society.
Fourth: No hijab and jewelry exhibition will invite defamation for men.
If a woman's body shape and jewelry show off in front of non mahram men, certainly would invite the attention of men's johns and a wolf in sheep's clothing. If there is a chance they would be prey to the vicious like a hungry lion.A poet said,
نظرة فإبتسامة فسلام * فكلام فموعد فلقاء.
"Starting from the view and then smile and greet followed by talks and end up with appointments and meetings."
Fifth: A Muslim woman who keep the hijab, indirectly he says to all men, "Tundukkanlah your eyes, I'm not yours and you are also not mine. I only belong to God's people is lawful for me. I am an independent person who is not tied to anyone and I'm not interested in anyone because I was taller and far more honorable than they. "
The woman who bertabarruj or show off and reveal the beauty of the nakedness of the body in front of men johns, indirectly he said, "Please enjoy the beauty of my body and face beauty. Is there anyone who would come near? Is there anyone who would look at me? Is there anyone who would give me a smile? Or there are people who joked, "Oh how beautiful she is?". They scramble to enjoy the beauty of her body and her beauty until they were terfitnah.
Which of the two women on a more independent? Clearly, the hijab is a perfect woman would force every man to lower his gaze and be respectful when they see it, until they conclude that she is independent, free and true.
Therefore, Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala explains the wisdom behind the command to wear the hijab with the word.
ذلك أدنى أن يعرفن فلا يؤذين وكان الله غفورا رحيما
"That is so they are easier to be recognized, therefore they are not disturbed. And Allah is Forgiving, Merciful." [Al Ahzab: 59]
Women who reveal the nakedness of the body and beauty and the beauty of his face, like a beggar who whined for mercy. Without realizing they are willing to fall prey to men's depraved and corrupted. She became a woman humiliated, abandoned, cheap and losing dignity and sanctity. And he has plunged himself into ruin and the catastrophe of life.
TERMS HijabHijab as part of the Islamic Shari'a, has obvious limitations. The scholars advocate the religion of Allah has described in their writings about the criteria for hijab. Each mukminah shall observe the Shari'a restrictions associated with this hijab. Qur'aan and the Sunnah of His Prophet making a basic reference in the charity, and are not held to the opinions deviate from the passions imitators.Thus the objectives can be realized disyariatkanya hijab, bi'aunillah.
Among the terms of the hijab among others:
First: It should cover the entire body and not show the slightest limb than those excluded. Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala says.
وقل للمؤمنات يغضضن من أبصارهن ويحفظن فروجهن ولايبدين زينتهن إلاماظهر منها وليضربن بخمرهن على جيوبهن
"And say to the believing women, let them beat their views and not to show off their adornment except the usual look and let them put her veil cloth to their chest." [An Nuur: 31].
And also the word of Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala.
يآأيها النبي قل لأزواجك وبناتك ونسآء المؤمنين يدنين عليهن من جلابيبهن ذلك أدنى أن يعرفن فلا يؤذين وكان الله غفورا رحيما {59} * لئن لم ينته المنافقون والذين في قلوبهم مرض والمرجفون في المدينة لنغرينك بهم ثم لايجاورونك فيهآ إلا قليلا
"O prophet tell your wives, your daughters and wives of the believers," Let them extend their scarf to the body. "That is so they are easier to be recognized, therefore they are not disturbed. And Allah is All Forgiving and infinite care. " [Al Ahzab: 59].
Second: The hijab should not draw attention to the views of men are not mahram. Hijab in order not to provoke the men's view it must meet the following requirements:
-. Hijab should be made of thick fabric that does not reveal the body color.-. The hijab should be loose and not show the shape of the body.-. The hijab should not be used as jewelry even have to have one color rather than a variety of colors and motifs.-. Hijab is not a dress of pride and arrogance.Based on the words of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam follows.
من لبس ثوب شهرة في الدنيا ألبسه الله ثوب مذلة يوم القيامة ثم ألهب فيه النار.
"Those who wear clothes in the world of arrogance Allah will disgrace to wear later on the Day of Resurrection and then he burned in hell." [Reported by Abu Daud and Ibn Majah, and this hadeeth is hasan]
-. The hijab should not be given a perfume or fragrance. Basically that is the hadeeth of Abu Musa Al Asy'ary Allaah 'anhu, he said that the Prophet sallallaahu' alaihi wa sallam said.
أيما امرأة استعطرت فمرت علي قوم ليجدوا ريحهافهي زانية.
"Any woman who wears perfume and passes a class of people that they smell it, then she is a woman adulterer". [Reported by Abu Daud, Tirmidhi and Nasa'i, and Hadith Hasan]
Third: clothing, or hijab should not resemble the clothing worn male or female clothing infidels. Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said.
من تشبه بقوم فهو منهم.
"Whoever resembles a people then he is a part of them". [Reported by Ahmad and Abu Dawood]
Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam cursed the man who wears women's clothing as well as condemning women who dress like men. [Reported by Abu Daud Nasa'i and Ibn Majah, and this hadith sahih].
Note:Shaykh al-Albani in his book Veil mar'ah Book Was Al Sunnah Muslim Fil said, covering the face is the sunnah of the law (not mandatory) but who use it have primacy. And Allaah knows best
This paper, I addressed to my sisters and sisters who have to further solidify her hijab hijab only to seek God's face. Also for those who have not hijab in order to repent and immediately start earning forgiveness from Allah Almighty.
Wallahu waliyyut taufiq(Um Ahmad Rifqi)
Maraji ':-Al Afrah, Ahmad bin Abdul Aziz Hamdani.Bil-Tanbihaat Ahkaami Takhtasu Mukminaat, Dr. Fauzan Salih bin Abdullah Al Fauzan.Hijab Al-Muslim Al Fil Kitabi mar'ah Was Sunnah, Shaykh al-Albani Nashiruddin.
[Copied from the magazine edition of As-Sunnah Foundation Published 04/Tahun VII/1424H/2003 Lajnah Istiqomah Surakarta, Jl.Solo - Solo Gondangrejo Purwodadi Km.8 Selokaton 57 183 Tel.08121533647, 08157579296]
Safar For Women Without legal mahram, doubtful, doubtful, and answer

Compiled byUmm 'Abdillah As-Salafiyyah

Doubtful, doubtful AND ANSWERA. Some people say that the ban on women without a mahram Safar is an ancient transport, such as camels, horses, or other, that women will have trouble, trouble, and spent a long time bersafar As for women who use today's transportation, both air transport, land or sea, it does not include the generality of the hadith which prohibits women without a mahram Safar.
We say to respond to this doubtful, namely: that the Shari'a and our religion to suit every age and place-Alhamdulillah-. So as the Shari'a and our religion according to age camels and swords, as well as to the time of the aircraft, rockets and the atom. If religion is only appropriate in an era, like the previous religions, surely Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala has sent a prophet after prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam, but surely our Lord will not do it, because He has said:
ماكان محمد أبآ أحد من رجالكم ولكن رسول الله وخاتم النبيين
"Muhammad is most certainly not the father of a man among you, but he is the Messenger of Allah, and cover the prophets". [Al-Ahzab: 40]
And the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said:
وأنا خاتم النبيين لا نبي بعدي
"I am the seal of the prophets and no prophet after me". (Narrated by Muslim, 1920, 4252 Abu Dawud, Tirmidhi 2203]
Then he sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam has leadeth his flock to every good and forbids them from every evil and preach to them the various trials and disasters that will happen until the Day of Resurrection. If the Shari'ah, the commands and prohibitions, he sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam applicable only valid for one day, then surely he has to explain it.
وماكان ربك نسيا
"It is not Rabbmu forget". [Maryam: 64]
Then indeed the people who investigate violations of the honor of the events in aircraft, automobiles and other transportation in this day and age, he will gain confidence that the enormity of the danger is still there, and because (reason) for which the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam forbade Safar women alone remain in force from ancient times until now.
Often we hear about an airplane hijacking, while women can lead to lust, he is weak and is the target of the men. Women are often on display for the greed of the people Fasiq, but they are like wolves ready to pounce, they are waiting for an opportunity that came to be alone with her and lunged for the honor and sanctity fare. Incidence of robbery and rape have been incalculable, a lot happened in the land of infidels and Muslim countries. Among the many reasons are: mixed baurnya (ikhtilath) between men and women, men alone with the woman, and safarnya woman alone without a mahram. So women who underestimate this problem would be to lose the honor and sanctity both of which are women's jewelry in every age and place. Because the safety of women dien safety also depends on the honor, glory and akhlaqnya. And religion will not keep a woman unless she followed what was ordered by Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala and His Apostle sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam and away from what is forbidden by Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala and His Apostle sallallaahu' alaihi wa sallam.
To the fathers, husbands and authorities in charge problem (Auliya'ul age) is, do not underestimate this dangerous problem. Yet by keeping the faith on this issue and other issues will be able to maintain the honor of the Muslims in all times and places. If not, then the wrath of Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala will be felt by these people and adzabNya will occur without exception. He said:
ياأيها الذين ءامنوا قوا أنفسكم وأهليكم نارا
"O ye who believe, guard yourselves and your family from hell". [At-Tahrim: 6]
The Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said:
كلكم راع و كلكم مسئول عن رعيته
"" Each of you is a leader and each of you will be held accountable for his leadership. [HR. Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Daud, Tirmidhi and Ahmad] [cf. Kasyful Khafa 'an Ahkaami Safarin Nisa' by Shaykh Muhammad Musa Nasr. Thing. 22-25]
2. Some people say: "Why are women prohibited except with a mahram Safar".
Doubtful nature of these according to them is "why a woman can not be a perfect confidence in him? Why should there be excessive fear? Let the thought be kind to women and do not worry about him".
When in fact the necessity of a mahram with her is a tribute to women. Because mahram is essentially regarded as a Khadim (servant) who worked on her needs, and memberikankan perfect peace him. As is also considered a mahram guard of honor and glory of the (impaired) people of low and ugly akhlaqnya.
The Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said:
لا يحل لامرأة تؤمن بالله واليوم الآخر أن تسافر إلا ومعها ذو محرم
"It is not halal (not) a woman who believes in Allah and the Last Day bersafar except with the mahram".
And orders him to a man who had registered to participate in the war he went to pilgrimage with his wife. All of that is for the benefit of women themselves. This does not eliminate the trust itself, will soothe his soul and even guarantee his safety. Indeed let the reins for a woman to bersafar whenever he wants, without a mahram is going to deliver himself and the whole society on a dangerous catastrophe. And it is a danger that threatens the safety of women.Because people want to do evil against him and waiting for him must be able to do so, thus destroying the lives and honor.
Among tabi'at women are weak and private entity (the soul) it, it is often defeated by the men. Due to its weakness, often affect men and women trying to save her and is willing to surrender his honor.From here (note that) mahram for a woman in the case of mandatory bersafar. As a mahram that hinder women's seclusion (to be alone with men who are not mahram) is a matter that must be.
Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam forbade men retreat with a foreign woman (not a mahram), because it resulted in disaster, in which Satan can chase will be a third party in this seclusion, while Satan can chase the enemy is real big for humans. All of this is to keep the morality of women, until the Messenger of Allah sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam forbade men to retreat for women who are relatives of these men, if there is no mahram with her, like a brother, an uncle of the father or uncle of the mother husband. He sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said:
إياكم والدخول على النساء فقال رجل من الأنصار يا رسول الله أفرأيت الحمو قال الحمو الموت
"Do you see a woman (who is not mahram). A man from the Ansar asked:" What do you think brother-in-law ". He said:" brother in law is death ".
In-law is a relative of the husband who is not mahram.
If there is no Satan can chase prudence will certainly affect the children of Adam, and certainly women will be victims. And if that happens, the proponents of freedom will not be freed from the disaster.
Kalu so, then what-mahram woman guarding morality, religion and life-safety is considered to narrow the freedom of (business) and for depriving her confidence? The truth is that it is an important part of their liberty rights (the rights to protection-Red) that it is not known except by those who God enlighten their hearts with the light of faith.[Syubhaatun Thariqatil Mar'atil Muslimah fi, p: 48-49, by sheikh Abdullah Al-Jilaaly, as quoted in kutaib "Min Mukhalafatin Nisa ', p: 45-47, jama'a Abdul Aziz bin Muhammad bin Abdullah As-Sudhaan]
3. Some people allow a woman is delivered by a mahram to a plane, then the others will pick her mahram in the destination country. In their opinion the aircraft is safe, because in many male passengers and perempaun.
We say to them: "Know that the aircraft is greater than the danger of another vehicle because passengers mingled in it. Likely she will sit next to men (who are not mahram), and possibly a plane face of something (eg bad weather) which can change to another airport (not the destination). If that happens, then the woman will not find a mahram who will pick him up, so he faces the danger. What happened to the woman in the country that he did not know, and there is no mahram him in that country? ". [Tanbihaat 'alaa Ahkaamin Takhtashshu Bil believing, by Sheikh Al-Fauzan Fauzan]
Sheikh Al-Albany rahimahullah mentions the following story:"There's mahram woman drove to the airport, because she has an appointment with her husband at the airport who will he go. After takeoff, a flight attendant noticed a nasty woman who is alone, that she was a beautiful. Then this horrible attendant tells the pilot the plane, about the beauty of the woman and that she was alone. Then the pilot to change the direction of the route of the first plane to another airport, on the grounds that there was damage to the aircraft. After the plane landed at the airport, the flight attendants had to accompany her to the passenger keperistirahatan , in the belief that flight attendants are women tersebuat want him because he was alone. After the flight attendants were preparing a suitable place, then he told the pilot, that everything was the way she wanted. Then the pilot was rushed to the spot, then met the woman. And here there was a vile act. After the passengers boarded the plane and continue their journey to get to the destination airport. There mahram woman is waiting, then the woman gave him what had happened to him. But (O women) can imagine how the woman's mahram. " [Quoted from Min Mukhaalafaatin Nisa ', p. 47-48].
FATWA ULAMA alcohol? WOMEN ON THE LAW OF HUSBAND OR WITHOUT mahramA. Samaahah Fatwa Shaykh al-'Alamah' Abdul 'Aziz bin Baaz rahimahullah:Question: "Is a woman considered a mahram for a woman of foreign (non mahram) in Safar, bermajlis and semisalnya or not considered a mahram?"
Answer: A woman is not a mahram for another woman, it's just mahram men are forbidden to marry him because nasab, such as: father, brother, or with such permissible for a husband, father husband (in law), son, husband, and such wet nurse's father, the brother of the wet nurse and semisalnya.
Men must not retreat (alone) with a foreign woman (not a mahram) and should not be bersafar him by the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam
لا تسافر المرأة إلا مع ذي محرم
"Women should not be shared with a mahram except Safar".
Saheeh, agreed upon. And by his saying sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam:
لا يخلون أحدكم بامرأة فإن الشيطان ثالثهما
"Let not a man seclusion (solitary) with a woman as the devil into a third party of both". [HR. Ahmad]. [Al-Fataawaa / Samahah ash-Shaykh 'Abdul' Aziz bin Baaz (190) printed by Muassasah Ad-Da'wah al-Islamiyah].
2. Al-Fatwa Standing Committee Ad-DaimahProblem: "There was a lady of Saba 'shalihah famous as a woman, she approached middle-aged or elderly, and she wanted to go for Hajj, but do not have a mahram (which may accompany it). There were men among the inhabitants of the land who want to go Hajj, he is known as a righteous man and he was with the women of the mahram. What should the woman's pilgrimage along the good men and the women, and he was with the women while the men were watching her, or Hajj obligations fall due to the absence from her mahram, while the side of the property he is capable of?. Give us a fatwa may God blessed you, because we disagreed with some of the brothers.
Al-Lajnah has answered as follows:A woman who does not have a mahram is obligatory pilgrimage it, because it includes as-Sabiil mahram, and ability as-is condition in Sabiil obligatory Hajj. Allah ta'ala says:
ولله على الناس حج البيت من استطاع إليه سبيلا ومن كفر فإن الله غني عن العالمين
"Doing the Hajj is a duty men owe to Allah, that is (for) people who can afford the journey to the House". [Ali-Imran: 97].
Women should not be doing bersafar for Hajj or for any other kind, except along with her husband or mahram, based on the hadith narrated by Bukhari that the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said:
لا يحل لامرأة أن تسافر مسيرة يوم وليلة إلا مع ذي محرم
"It is not lawful for a woman to do Safar day and night except with a mahram".
And based on the hadith narrated by Bukhari and Muslim also from 'Abbas Allaah' anhu, he heard the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said (meaning): "Let not a man seclusion with a woman except in conjunction with mahram woman, not a woman Safarexcept with the mahram ". Then one stood up and said:" Allah Wahaia actually my wife out for Hajj, while I was carrying the war to follow this and this. "He said:" Go and berhajilah with your wife. "
Al-Hasan an-Nakha'i, Ahmad, Ishaq, Ibn al-Mundhir and Ashabur Ra'yi been found with the words of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam is. And that is authentic because according to the generality of the ahaadeeth which forbid women Safar without a husband or mahram. Meanwhile, Malik, Ash-Shafi'i and al-Auza'iy menyelisihi at it, and each of them gives the terms which do not exist at all hujjahnya.
May God give blessings on our Prophet Muhammad sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam. [Ad-Da'wah Magazine 7688 - al-Lajnah ad-Da'imah].
3. Fatwa Shaykh al-'Uthaymeen, may Allaah have mercy.Rahimahullah He said: "A woman should not be bersafar for Hajj or for any other kind except with the mahram, whether safarnya the same long and short, with the women or not, women or the elderly, based on the generality of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam:
لا تسافر المرأة إلا مع ذي محرم
"A woman should not bersafar except with the mahram".
Safar wisdom of prohibiting women without a mahram is a lack of sense of women, lack of (power to) defend himself, and he was the target of the men. Sometimes he was tricked, forced or weak faith and went out with syahwatnya, while in itself there is something to be desired by those who greedily. Mahram then who will protect, maintain and defend his honor. Therefore should be required mahram men baligh and sensible, so that the child is not sufficient yet baligh nor those who are not intelligent.
Mahram is a woman's husband and every man who married her forever haram well as their relatives (family), or a wet nurse (family) by marriage. [Al-Manhaj Li Muriidil 'Umrati Wal Hajji Muhammad bin Salih Al-' Uthaymeen: 7].
4. Fatwa of Shaykh Muhammad Ibrahim Syaqrah HafidhulullahHafidhulullah He said: "(For) a woman plus a sixth condition, namely the existence of a husband or a mahram with her for Hajj will bersafar. Because bersafar not lawful for him to Haj or otherwise except with her husband or mahram, such as: father, brother orboys. Same thing either found a trustworthy friend or not, whether mandatory or sunnah pilgrimage, either elderly or girl.
The Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said:
لا يحل لامرأة أن تسافر مسيرة يوم وليلة إلا ومعها ذي محرم
"It is not lawful for a woman as far as day and night Safar (journey) but along with the mahram".
He sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam ordered a man who has prepared (the need) to go to war while his wife wanted to go for Hajj, so he left the pilgrimage with his wife and jihad.
Seaandainya-scholars who argue bolehnya Safar woman with a woman who is trustworthy, see or hear what is happening in our day-when intermediaries Safar has become easier, with the airplane, car or other form of deprivation of the incident airplanes, and the frequent change of direction for emergency landings at airports other than the cool, they must look back at what they say.
I was surprised but not to a group of ahlu ilmi in this day and age, they make easy-perantar intermediaries (freight-transport), the shortness of time and the short travel distance away as permissible for a woman alone without a mahram Safar or husbands, while they see the disaster which occurs in humans directly!
God is the place to complain, I remind them of the Almighty's word:
وماكان ربك نسيا
"And it is not Rabbmu forget".
[As-Saary Irsyaadu ilaa 'Ibaadati al-Baary, p: 19, 20]
In the book of the same thing: 41, he said: (Under the title: special issues on women's pilgrimage):
First: If the terms of the mandatory pilgrimage for women have been realized unless (a) a husband or a mahram to accompany her in safarnya, it had fallen from her pilgrimage obligations.
Second: If the woman Safar for hajj without the company of her husband or mahram, then he has this sinner with safarnya. Just the same, either with friends or friends of women who trust women who do not trust. But if he has fulfilled the rituals of the Hajj Hajji was perfect and the fall from her pilgrimage obligations.
And Allaah knows best-Shawwab Bish.
May God give prayers and greetings k in our Prophet Muhammad, his family, his Companions and those who followed the well until doomsday.
[Copied from As-Sunnah magazine V/1422/2001M 07/Tahun Edition. Publishers Foundation Lajnah Istiqomah Surakarta, Jl.Solo-Solo Purwodadi Km.8 Selokaton Gondangrejo 57 183 Tel.0271-7574821]
Bachelors Yummy So what?

ByCleric Abu Ahmad Zainal Abidin

IF I DOSAKAH celibacy?Single makes life uncomfortable, uncertain, vulnerable to defamation, a headache-prone diseases. Every night, the time-out is not to tahajjud but to daydream. Agency is not maintained properly, sleep is often strange dream, while the house and bed become a mess. But many young men and women are delaying marriage, because they think it is really horrible. Marriage to be a restraint of liberty, and made the step is limited; have not stopped thinking about family affairs, wife, child-in-law, brother-in-law, and so forth. So, the way liberty is an option.
Anas bin Malik of Allaah 'anhu who said that there are three or more people come to the wives of the Prophet sallallaahu' alaihi wa sallam with the intent to ask him about his worship. When told how to worship him, they said: "Compared with him, then where is our position, while he has been given a pardon for his sins of past and future." One of them said: "I will always do evening prayer and not a full night's sleep. "Another said:" I will always be fast all the time and not break. "Another said:" I would stay away from women and not be married forever. "Hearing those words, then the Messenger of Allaah alaihi wa sallam came to them and said: "You have spoken such and such, you know, for the sake of Allah Almighty, in fact I was the most feared and the fear of Almighty Allah among you, but I fast and I break the fast, I pray and sleep, and I'm married to a woman; who hates Sunnahku things, then not including golonganku. "[1]
Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam urged his people to settle down soon, because celibacy is not including the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallaahu' alaihi wa sallam Even a Sufi lifestyle that is not realistic, just because the reason for maintaining the quality of worship and maintain closeness with Allah Almighty. When young single reason to maintain the quality of worship and closeness with Allah Almighty is not justified, then how else to youth who are not married and would prefer the single life only for reasons of study, career or afraid to risk a wedding? It's very unfortunate.
Little-girl NGANTEN DADI (SO SMALL SMALL-Bride)To date, early marriage or early marriage, is still regarded as the main trigger collapse of marriage and the incidence of divorce. In fact, most people always comment angled when young teenagers have done with a mock marriage ceremony "Little girl, why dadi nganten". Really bad consequences? As a Muslim should not decide anything, either accept or reject, but after a thorough assessment and reflect deeply on the argument and religious instructions, to produce fair and wise judgment. Now! How does a review of religion on this issue?
In general, the religion of Islam strongly encourages people to get married. Because in addition to the sunnah of the Prophet, marriage is the most effective measures to lower his gaze and control the passions. Especially when a teenager, both men and women concerned in the libel and slammed into the accursed deed, due to the surrounding environment is not very convenient for the single life. Then Allah Almighty says which means:
فانكحوا ما طاب لكم من النساء مثنى وثلاث ورباع فإن خفتم ألا تعدلوا فواحدة أو ما ملكت أيمانكم ذلك أدنى ألا تعولوا
"And marry those women who (else) that you enjoy: two, three or four; then if you can not justly fear, then (marry) a woman alone or budakbudak women you have, so that is next to no from doing injustice. "[An-Nisa '/ 4:3]
Age limit for marriage is relative, depending on condition and mental readiness of each bride. But in general, the sooner the better and safer to marry from a variety of defamation, as well as commendable before God Almighty. Moreover, by marriage, lived to be well off, according to the word of God Almighty, which means:
وأنكحوا الأيامى منكم والصالحين من عبادكم وإمائكم إن يكونوا فقراء يغنهم الله من فضله والله واسع عليم
"And kawinkanlah the people who alone among you, and decent people (spouse) from sahayamu servants are women. If they are poor Almighty Allah will enrich them of His bounty, and Allah is vast (his gift), Knowing. "[An-Nûr/24: 32]
'Abdullah ibn Mas'ud Allaah' anhu said: "We've traveled with the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam that when we were young and do not have any ability. The Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "O young people! Whoever among you has the ability to marry, marry, because it is much lower his gaze and maintain the honor.But anyone who can not afford, then he should fast, because fasting is a cure. [2]
Confirmed exactly what the Prophet sallallaahu 'laihi wa sallam in his saying: "There are three groups who would be helped by Allah Almighty, namely mukâtab slave (a slave who wanted to liberate themselves by working hard to pay off debts), people who marry for the sake of keep away from immoral deeds and patra cum in the way of Allah. "[3]
CASUAL twists MARRIED COLLEGETo the righteous, like clothes for the husband and wife, who is ready to cover and penghangatnya. Conversely, the wife is like a haven for calming the mind and feelings that God k prepared, in order to feel comfortable in it. So for students, tiredness and fatigue vanished, upset and fatigue disappeared, strained back muscle slack, tired with work and college routine missing after meeting with his wife.Thoughts crowded into plong, the coursework is easily solved, the task facing the campus easy to learn and boredom can be treated.There can be instantly shared sorrow, no trouble can be discussed and sought after road completion.
But, for people who are far away from the guidance and wisdom and not good at taking her time, a wedding can be the opposite.Because marriage; hearts become restless, feeling too depressed.On the other hand a headache thinking about test preparation, on the other hand, the child is fussy because of illness. We want to pay for college, suddenly the wife or child is sick and in need of cost.Must be a belief in the Almighty Allah says the following:
ومن يتق الله يجعل له مخرجا ويرزقه من حيث لا يحتسب ومن يتوكل على الله فهو حسبه
Whoever is devoted to the Almighty Allah willed, He would make her way out. And give him sustenance from unexpected directions, but thought nothing. And whoever is sole trust in God Almighty, Almighty Allah will suffice (need) it. [Ath-Thalaq/65 :2-3]
For a young man, marriage would enlighten minds, be evidence of masculinity, responsibility training, honing mental, and test your nerve and courage, and strengthen their social status in society.Growing even cried when they help each other in the pursuit of knowledge, bear all the burden of living and maintaining a relationship with God k, by enforcing a wide range of worship. So do not be indecisive and hesitant to walk to the altar, optimislah happiness you get there. The shadow of sorrow, is owned by The people pessimistic and fearful, afraid to face the challenges.
YOUNG WEDDING virtueMarriage is the embryo of seeds and the growth of order in public life. Because marriage is a rule for living organisms are natural inhabitants of the universe. He is the laws to make life more valuable, orderly and respectable. Marriage is an essential inner relationships, true love is full of honesty, full of life relationship spirit of togetherness and love for a family at once sincere and prosperity of the universe.
Marriage is part of the signs of Allah Almighty to show rububiyah perfection. Allah Almighty is the most right to be worshiped. As Allah Almighty.
ومن آياته أن خلق لكم من أنفسكم أزواجا لتسكنوا إليها وجعل بينكم مودة ورحمة
"And among His signs is that He created his wives for you from jenismu own, and so you tend to be reassured him and his love of you." [Ar-Rûm/30: 21]
Marriage is believed to be a means to establish a clean romance, melestari the safe descent, educate generations of people who benefit, also a great way to perfect faith, delivering a healthy lust, knit caresses of love, to keep themselves from things which are forbidden according to nature . and to clarify the spiritual. Weddings can also be a major factor to obtain inner peace and happiness in life. Married couples can obtain the perfection of worship, seeking knowledge of success, work success, maturity and good personality in the world and the hereafter ..
Anas bin Malik of Allaah 'anhu that the Prophet sallallaahu' alaihi wa sallam said: "Anyone who has been blessed with a shalihah wife, God has helped k half his religion, then let k have fear of Allah in the other half of the religion." [4]
Marriage is a basic frame and pole buildings for the Muslim community living in a society and nation building. It is very decent when all members of the community welcomed the wedding with congratulations and prayers are filled with joy and blessings like fun.But it must be remembered, must remain in the corridor and the ethics of Islam, so that the process of making the building was still properly targeted, and upright, so it can form a modern Islamic society.
Love and peace that grows in the hearts of husband and wife is the blessing of God Almighty. With the help of his wife, a husband is able to overcome various problems and difficulties faced. She will be a consolation when afflicted with sorrow and suffering husband.He will be able to help her husband in good deeds, community and helping vulnerable people. So did my husband and he will be the protector and adviser to his wife by giving hakhak a perfect wife.
There has been a good example of the Mother of the Faithful himself, Khadijah Allaah 'anha, when it was first down revelation to the Prophet sallallaahu' alaihi wa sallam. Khadijah Allaah 'anha cheer when he said to him: "Truly I fear for myself." Khadijah then Allaah 'anha said: "Certainly not, for the sake of Allah Almighty!Indeed Allah Almighty will not make you humiliated forever, because you people are very happy to connect Silaturrahim, helpful, happy to help people in trouble, guests respect and defend the good guys ". [5]
Sometimes a wife be a determinant of greatness and success of her husband, both inside and outside the home. Then straighten your intentions when they wanted to get married and follow the guidance of religion in marriage. Undoubtedlyall expectations come true, InshaAllah.
MAIN MOTIVATION YOUNG WEDDINGThere are several factors that drive a person to marry, whether related to personal interests or the desire for offspring. And motivation will affect his character or his family, as the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam: "The best is a woman who can ride a camel, (and) the best of women of Quraysh, is very dear to her since (his son) is small, and so obey the husband and trustworthy. "[6].
Among the motivating factors for a man married is:A. Because of the background looked at women and families who are religious, noble, good-hearted and tempered straight.2. Because the family is considered respectable women, like sacrificing, generous, happy to do good and help out others.3. Because the woman's family is famous for his heroic attitude, determination and courage to bear all the risk.4. Because beauty, wealth and property owned by the candidate's wife.5. To give you happiness and tranquility to the parents. That is because of the continuing descent of hope with the birth of grandchildren, as well as their children grow up happy and willing to take a big responsibility.6. To prove that he is a real man that is ready to be responsible and brave to face all challenges.7. Including the motivation of a man and woman to get married, because they are afraid of falling in slander and accursed deed.8. Including the motivation of a man and woman to get married, to be channeled to the maximum age.
That need to be a concern, that beauty is woman's heart enough to be a substitute for religion facial beauty. By the nature Iffah (honor guard) he was satisfied to be a yawning husband. His heart was always dependent on her husband and not leaning on other men.
Nasab and honor a woman is able to filter the nature arrogant, haughty and proud of myself. So he will be clever to keep themselves from indecency, keep your heart and lower his gaze and guard genitals of a forbidden act. She always keeps her beauty only for oral and husband, not the other.
Her possessions can be replaced with an attitude of trust, ingenuity and clever husband maintain the property. So he was not extravagant in matters of food and drink, and do not demand more of their needs. Thus, women who choose her religion. Because if not, then the hands would be dirty and will lose money and ruined lives.
[Copied from As-Sunnah magazine XIII/1430H/2009M 02/Tahun Edition. Foundation published Lajnah Istiqomah Surakarta, Jl. Solo - Solo Gondanrejo Purwodadi Km.8 Selokaton 57 183 Tel. 0271-858197 Fax 0271-858197]
source: http://almanhaj.or.id